@DocHardinger I think I have a clue. I managed to reliably reproduce the issue on a Lenovo P15s notebook running windoze 10. It will reliably disconnect if I run iw ra0 scan in a loop on OpenWrt 23. So I ran Wireshark to check for lost packets, acks etc, nothing notable to report. However I did notice the Wifi signal strength kept dropping and then the SSID disappears. If I set the saved network to autoconnect, it reconnects fine. But as the loop runs it disconnects again and then reconnects etc. I put my iPhone and Android 11 devices next to the P15s at the same so they are the same distance from the Omage2p and neither of them disconnect when the windoze device disconnects.
This Lenovo P15s can dual boot either windoze 10 or Ubuntu 24.10, so this time I booted into Ubuntu and ran the same test, it doesn't disconnect. So the problem is isolated to windoze.
I ran LinSSID on Ubuntu and it does not detect any notable drop in signal strength, so I rebooted in windoze and ran Acrylic WiFi Analyser, it shows a short-lived drop in signal strength when I'm running iw ra0 scan in a loop.
My working hypothesis is that windoze is aggressively monitoring connectivity and the faster the machine the more likely it is to disconnect, but slower devices like iphones, android phones and old Surface devices are simply not noticing the short lived signal drop.
OpenWrt 22 uses iw v5.16 OpenWrt 23 uses iw v5.19, so I wondered if the newer iw is doing something different. Looking at the code the changes are minimal, so I installed iw v5.16 on OpenWrt 23 but the issue persists.
Both 22 and 23 use the same mt76 firmware release, so I'm looking at the driver code for some hints.